Have you ever looked at men who can get any girl they want and wondered, “how do they do it?” Yes, females are attracted to power and status. Yes, they are attracted to symmetrical features, strength and confidence. But we all know there are some unattractive, not-so-powerful guys who many women swoon over. Here are some of their secrets.
Steps
Manage your image. Before you can seduce a girl, you must have a good, positive image. Make friends and be charming with every one you come in contact with. Never hesitate to tell one person what you admire about another, as it will eventually reach that person and appear undoubtedly genuine. Never argue (arguing is anti-seduction). No girl can resist a guy whom everyone likes, unless she’s the type to rebel against popular opinion just because it’s popular opinion (in which case the remainder of the steps will probably wear her down).
Subtly reveal your sexual side. If you cannot insinuate, skip this step. When you talk about sex, say it in a way that Shakespeare would approve of. For example, “Sleep is my second favorite thing to do in bed” or “my neighbors are noisy during the day, but that’s okay because they put up with me at night.”
Do the opposite of what other guys do. If the girl is drop-dead gorgeous, ignore her. After hearing about your rakish reputation, she will wonder why you are not attracted to her. If other guys ignore her, shower her with the attention she has been craving.
Hint that other girls like you. Women hold each other’s opinions very highly and they get jealous easily.
Speak seductively. Never start a conversation focused on work, school, MySpace, family, TV shows, or other everyday things. Never talk about yourself. Talk about exotic vacation spots, mythology, sex (sometimes), history, astrology, dreams, fate, and anything else pleasurable and intangible. Don’t express any opinions except for your preference for pleasurable things and for things that she likes. Keep a powerful gaze while talking about these things. The eyes are very important.
Never apologize. And never worry when you talk with a girl. Iit will be written all over your face and interpreted as a sign of timidness, which, for most girls, is a turn-off.
Show strategic weakness (optional). This step is optional, but it will speed up the seduction. If you naturally come off as weak, skip this step. For more masculine guys, a flash of weakness and sensitivity will make you seem honest, romantic, harmless, and more akin to a girl’s idea of “the one.” All girls are frightened of guys on some level. The more feminine and skittish the girl is, the more necessary this step is. The key to performing this step correctly is to bend the truth. Don’t talk about breakups or events that you really are sensitive about. As with dancing, it is your job to lead. Don’t lead her into a depressing discussion topic. Add a masculine angle to feminine subjects. A good idea would be to say, “yeah, I watched The Notebook. I liked how he didn’t give up hope after he saw her with the other guy.”
Give her plenty of space. Neediness and smothering are unattractive qualities. There are bound to be things about you that she doesn’t like. Give her time to forget about those things and fantasize about the good things you have to offer.
Make her laugh. When a woman laughs, she feels more relaxed and lowers her defenses (and inhibitions).
Touch her. Reach for her hands, hair, shoulders, ankles, and back. Don’t just always wait for her to do it first. If she doesn’t like it, she’ll definitely let you know. But touching someone communicates to them that you find them attractive, and also that you’re reasonably confident. Both of these things can make someone feel more attracted to you.
Make her feel irresistible. Try it by telling her something seductive, starting with rejection of this desirable thing – ex. “Please don’t wear short skirt tonight, as I will not resist the temptation!” or something like that “Don’t touch me like that. I like it more than I should.” She’ll probably keep doing it (consider it a form of reverse psychology).
And that should be enough to get you well underway. Go forth and conquer!
Justin here, continuing the recap of my eventful first evening in Chicago. Parts one and two involved an incredible meal at the famed Chicago Chop House followed by a (brief) stop at Club Transit. I say brief because not too long after arriving, I was introduced to Melissa and Amanda — two spoiled, vacuous — but hot — party girls. Within relatively short order, we were all back at the “Fantastic Suite” (that is actually what the W calls the suite) I was staying in at the W Hotel. After shooting down a few small bottles from the mini-bar, the two of them soon ended up on the bed — and the show began. Most every straight red blooded male fantasizes about having threesomes — but the appeal behind this fantasy varies. Some guys like attention lavished upon them and to be serviced by multiple females. Others enjoy the challenge of satisfying two girls at once. However, for me at least, much of the appeal derives from watching two girls in action pleasing one another.
Amanda and Melissa did not disappoint me in this regard. I could tell they were truly into each other, and this added greatly to my enjoyment watching them. After a while, I decided it was time to join the party, and I undressed and approached the pair as Amanda was on all fours on top of Melissa grinding back and forth against her. Amanda looked up at me with a bit of surprised look when I stuck my finger into her pussy, but her surprise turned into a naughty smile — and she had my cock in her mouth within seconds. Melissa got up on her knees, and both were now in front of me passing back and forth my cock like it was a joint. I didn’t end up actually fucking either of them, but they did spend the night which included sessions in the nice Jacuzzi, the bed and the plush sofa. By the time the sun came up, I was drained both literally and figuratively. It was a Windy City night to remember.
Sorry for the delay, but I am now back for the second chapter describing my glorious first night in Chicago. As I relayed to everyone in my prior post, the evening started off on a truly carnivorous note at Chicago Chop House. We then transitioned to Transit (no pun intended) which is one of the hottest clubs in Chicago. My new trader friends had arranged for a large table in their VIP lounge, and the night started with a parade of farm-raised Midwestern sluts coming by our table. Steve and his buddies knew quite a few chicks there, and within relatively short order there were six of them enjoying bottle service with us at our table. One blond — Melissa — initially caught my eye, and before long I was out on the dance floor with her — and to my present surprise her friend Amanda soon joined us. I’ve been amply blessed in many arenas, but dancing is not one of them. Dancing with two hot chicks was drawing a bit too much attention for my liking, so I deftly guided them back to a quiet area in order to see if I had a shot at making this night extra special.
It quickly became apparent that both were somewhat bubbleheaded, spoiled party girls — but quite hot ones. Both are 21 and from North Shore suburbs, and they didn’t seem to do or have interest in much outside of shopping and partying. Melissa was a toned blond around 5′ 6, and Amanda a more voluptuous brunette at around 5’8 (with amazingly succulent tits). The idea of a threesome obviously quickly entered my head, and I was gauging the best way to approach this delicate subject without putting them off. I decided that this situation called for a direct route, so I proceeded to kiss Melissa — and then immediately turned my attention to Amanda. After kissing Amanda they looked at each other and proceeded to make-out — and I could tell it wasn’t their first time doing so. After only just over an hour or so in Transit, it became time to transit back to the W for what would prove to be the true highlight of the night.
Drunk chicks giveth and taketh away. According to a new study, women who binge drink are much more likely to partake in anal sex and sex with multiple partners. That sounds like fun, but there is a catch. The study also showed that binge drinking females were much more likely to carry gonorrhea. Bummer.
The organizers of the study surveyed 671 patients at an STD clinic about their drinking habits and sexual history. The findings not only looked at these habits, but also compared gender differences. Specifically, female binge drinkers, defined as having 5 or more drinks in one sitting, were 3 times more likely than men to have anal sex. Compared to sober women, the binge drinkers were twice as likely to have sex with multiple partners and five times more likely to get gonorrhea.
The disparity between men and women was explained by the researchers in terms of the same amount of alcohol impairing women more, and the higher likelihood of women to contract STDs based on anatomical differences.
So, the next time you find yourself at a wild party, take a look around and pay attention to any girl that has just had her 5th drink or more. She just became much more likely to gang bang, take it up the ass, and give you gonorrhea. A mixed bag for sure, but as they say, knowledge is power.
Just how far will men go to get laid? According to a recent paper by the Journal of Evolutionary Psychology, men are programmed by nature to risk death — if necessary — to score. This academic study lays out evolutionary and biological reasons behind the recklessness of males, and describes to what lengths men are driven to go in order to facilitate the spreading of their seed. The urge to procreate is primal within every species — humans not excluded. Many species will go to extreme lengths to spread their genes — one disturbing example is within the lion world where males routinely kill unrelated infant lions in order to bring their mothers back into heat. Although the vast majority of male humans would never entertain such a thing — we are willing to literally put our lives at risk when it comes to sex.
The researchers behind this study theorize that this difference between the genders relates to their respective roles within child bearing and rearing. Although current society has transcended the era of women spending their lives “pregnant and in the kitchen”, the traditional role as the primary party responsible for rearing children imparted a sense of caution to females. They were programmed to protect themselves in order to protect their kids — absent fathers could go get themselves killed and their kids would still be fine so long as their mother remained ok. This resulted in a male reckless streak — and the primary prehistoric urge to procreate served to drive men to take great risks while in pursuit of pussy. These primordial urges and behaviors still linger with us today.
