Just how far will men go to get laid? According to a recent paper by the Journal of Evolutionary Psychology, men are programmed by nature to risk death — if necessary — to score. This academic study lays out evolutionary and biological reasons behind the recklessness of males, and describes to what lengths men are driven to go in order to facilitate the spreading of their seed. The urge to procreate is primal within every species — humans not excluded. Many species will go to extreme lengths to spread their genes — one disturbing example is within the lion world where males routinely kill unrelated infant lions in order to bring their mothers back into heat. Although the vast majority of male humans would never entertain such a thing — we are willing to literally put our lives at risk when it comes to sex.
The researchers behind this study theorize that this difference between the genders relates to their respective roles within child bearing and rearing. Although current society has transcended the era of women spending their lives “pregnant and in the kitchen”, the traditional role as the primary party responsible for rearing children imparted a sense of caution to females. They were programmed to protect themselves in order to protect their kids — absent fathers could go get themselves killed and their kids would still be fine so long as their mother remained ok. This resulted in a male reckless streak — and the primary prehistoric urge to procreate served to drive men to take great risks while in pursuit of pussy. These primordial urges and behaviors still linger with us today.
South Beach in Miami is one of the premiere adult playgrounds in the world, and within South Beach the Versace Mansion serves as a focal point where debauchery meets fashion. This property was originally named Casa Casuarina, and it was the home of famed designer Gianni Versace up until the day of his death — on which he was tragically shot within feet of the mansion’s front gate. Subsequent to his killing, the mansion was converted into a private club and provides for a venue for some of South Beach’s most hedonistic events. The above video encapsulates just a taste of the action happening at this hotspot on a nightly basis.
Guys looking to hook up with some of the hottest women on the planet flock to South Beach, and in addition to the Versace Mansion, there are quite a few spots to see and be seen. At B.E.D. restaurant, diners are provided with their own (curtained and private) bed allowing for a mix of dining and playing, and Tantra mixes aphrodisiac-laden food with exotic belly dancers. Recently, the CEO of a large German pharmaceutical company sued the South Beach hotel he was staying at complaining that partiers had entered his room and started an orgy without his permission — a service one would think a hotel would charge extra for.
While, in principle, there is never a bad time for sex, discretion dictates that one should refrain from sexual activity during some activities common in everyday life. Examples could include refraining from sex while going to church, abstaining while at a parent-teacher conference, and avoiding sexual activity while driving. Out of all of these example, the latter can prove to be the most dangerous. Nonetheless, a surprising 15% of respondents in a recent international study admitted to engaging in a sexual act while driving a vehicle. 1800 drivers from five countries including the United States were interviewed for this study.
More common was eating while driving — 75% admitted to being guilty to this offense. 28% confessed to texting while driving, and 20% of women do their hair or make-up while driving. The study was conducted by the Danish headset maker Jabra, and it appears their goal was to show that texting or talking on a hand held device was more dangerous than using a headset. Surely they were surprised at the number of us who have the dexterity to have sex while driving which is a phenomenon for which a headset can’t be a substitute.
Looking for a vacation where naked chicks are guaranteed? Bare Necessities has been organizing clothing optional vacations for over two decades, and they feature upscale travel options for people who enjoy being naked. Bare Necessities has a full schedule this summer including a plethora of exciting destinations and resorts. The Star Clipper sets sail on August 21st and includes stops in Greece, Turkey, Cypress and Egypt — providing for an educational combination of world history and the anatomy of your fellow travelers. The Royal Clipper is scheduled to sail on June 25th, and this cruise includes stops in mainland Italy, Sicily, Montenegro and Croatia. Additional cruises are scheduled for the Fall and during the 2010 Winter Holiday break.
Once on board, Bare Necessities provides seminars and entertainment geared for those who enjoy the nudist lifestyle. Examples include couple’s massage, tantric sex, meditation and Yoga. Passengers are encouraged to get naked at all times except for meals, cocktail receptions and when docked in port. Bare Necessities also organizes land-based vacations. For those for whom Hedonism is too tame, Bare Necessities can arrange fully naked travel to Negril and Rio Bueno in Jamaica, and to clubs in St. Maarten and Bonnaire in the Caribbean. If you’re looking for something different for your next vacation — this might be for you.
In a story sure to send shivers down the spines of cheaters across the country, a Batavia, NY woman is facing a criminal charge for committing adultery. It is widely assumed that adultery is no longer a crime in America — but that assumption is wrong. Many states have old adultery laws on the books, but obviously they are rarely — if ever — enforced. The unlucky defendant in this case is 41 year old Suzanne M. Corona (pictured above), and she is the first person prosecuted for adultery in New York in decades. The charge originated from a rather uncouth casual sex encounter Suzanne decided to have with a 25 year old boytoy in a local park — in full view of several neighborhood parents and children. The cops were so aghast at this brazen act that they decided to pile on the charges on this hapless cougar — and they dusted off the State’s archaic adultery law.
Ms. Corona is now challenging the constitutionality of this law although she has yet to retain an attorney. The judge in the case has given her a few weeks in order to find an attorney, and she has been released on bail during the interim. Suzanne’s husband of over six years, Joseph Corona, fully supports his wife and demands that the charges be dropped. They both admitted that her behavior that day in the park was “inappropriate”, but she swears it was not done in view of any of the local kids. It is doubtful this adultery charge will become commonplace seeing the current economic crisis would preclude putting half of the nation’s population in jail.
When it comes to getting laid, some guys have the routine so refined that they could pick up girls in their sleep. According to a recently published study by the Sleep Research Laboratory of Toronto, some actually might be doing just that — literally. The condition is officially called Sexsomnia, and it entails initiating sexual activity while asleep. Over 800 people diagnosed with a sleep order were studied, and just under 10% of them had the proclivity to seek sex while still asleep. Not surprisingly, men were three times as likely to have this predisposition as compared to women. One interesting side note to the study was that those who were inclined to have sleep sex also had a three times greater likelihood of using illicit drugs.
This is believed to be the first peer-reviewed study of Sexsomnia, and researchers seek to use its findings in order to gain further understandings about the mysterious world of human sleep. Scientists actually know quite little about how sleep works, and studying abnormalities has yielded the greatest insights. Obviously, reports of Sexsomnia are made by the study participants themselves seeing researchers could not be present when the act occurred. Some are wondering if this condition is being over-reported — by guys who fail to perform and now realize they have a perfect excuse.
Does it bother you that the phrase “blow job” describes something that involves no blowing at all? Wouldn’t “suck job” be a more accurate description here? We had to find out what was going on.
The real tipping point for the phrase being commonly use was Andy Warhol’s 1963 film, “Blow Job.” It was a silent portrayal of a dude receiving the act in the title for 35 minutes. That is apparently the whole flick, and the IMDB page for it only credits “the giver” and “the receiver” as appearing. After this movie, ‘blow job’ started to appear in dictionaries and the rest is history.
During the 1940s and 50s in America, extremely fast airplanes were affectionately called blow jobs because anyone near the place of take off received a blow job. (Not literally you fiends, we mean their hair was blown back.)
Some experts believe the phrase developed from the phrase to “blow off” as in to blow off steam. Hookers in the 1930s would offer to “blow you off” meaning that they would release the steam of your arousal, or cool you down.
Another possibility goes back even further to 18th century Europe, where a prostitute was known as a “blower.” The reason for this is that a slang term for a penis at the time was a “whorepipe,” and the prostitute playing the instrument was the blower.
It is hard to point to one of these as the exact point where the phrase started, but it is interesting to look back on the things we all take for granted sometimes. Plus it just sounds better than suck job anyway.
With the amount of casual sex that goes on these days, you would be wise to conclude that both men and women feel pretty good about it. Surprisingly, you would be wrong, according to a study published in the journal human nature. Researchers from Durham University in the United Kingdom surveyed thousands of people who had casual sex encounters and got answers about their feelings on the incidents. There were some interesting results.
The researchers theorized that if there are evolutionary benefits to casual sex, such as to spread the proverbial seed for guys, then positive feelings about the practice would develop to reinforce its practice in society and pass down the genes. For women, it is less clear what the evolutionary reason, but it could be to draw from a larger number of quality partners to increase the chance of one of them producing offspring with quality genes. These types of concepts were looked at going in.
The results showed that men felt positive about causal sex 80% of the time, while women felt positive about it only 54% of the time. Men felt more sexually satisfied and confident about the experience and were less concerned if others found out about it. Women reported feeling used and unappreciated, and were concerned that others finding out could damage their reputation. Also, women were not as sexually satisfied and perhaps surprisingly, did not feel any expectation that casual sex would lead to a longer term relationship.
Women clearly had much more negative feelings about casual sex than guys according to the study. The bottom line, however, is that quite a bit of casual sex continues to go on and shows no signs of stopping. The question, then, is what drives women to participate if their feelings about the experience are lukewarm?
Alright guys, when you get past all the “motion of the ocean,” “it’s how you use it,” and Easter Bunny stuff, it is time to face the reality that size matters. Thanks to the guys at penissizedebate.com, we now have an idea of how it matters as you can see in the penis size preference chart above. As you might have guessed, girth is as important as length and a sweet spot develops between the 7 ¼ to 8 ¼ inch range with 6 ¼ -6 ½ circumference.
The chart was developed based on a survey of many women and its creators, who are clear to point out that the chart was updated to reflect the “enormous amount” of women who sent comments to the site and to “me personally.” We also got a kick out of the key, which goes from perfect to enjoyable, with the last range covering everything from too small or big, along with “any freaky combination of small and big.” It is definitely an interesting chart, but how realistic is it? Consider this graph of actual penis sizes:
As you can see, the average is a little less than 6 inches and things heavily tail off as you get closer to 7 inches. When comparing the charts, there is definitely a discrepancy. One thing is clear, though – there is definitely a basis for some insecurity to be formed here! Sorry guys, but graphs are graphs.
Now this is what I call innovation! Bedpost is an app currently in its beta stages that lets you track your sex life online. It is completely private and has no social networking features. However, there is word that it will eventually include a notification if a partner logs in, but there will still be no communication or viewing of other people’s profiles.
The application works in a calendar view, and lets you tag things by time of day, day of week, how long it lasted, and more. You can also add your own tags to track more, uh, “descriptive” things like what was done, what devices were used, positions, and all that good stuff.
If used over time, there could actually be some interesting information gathered out of this. For example, looking at weekend hookups only, are you more likely to get lucky on a Friday or a Saturday? When it comes to weekday dates, which day of the week is most successful? Even if you have a steady partner, you can track your performance and learn whether you do better in the morning or at night, on what day, with which foreplay, and so on and so forth.
On the one hand, it seems a little like a novelty, but when you really think about it, this can be a useful little app. If you are honestly getting some regularly, that can be hard to keep track of! Well pretty soon, we could have a solid solution for that.
Many claim that the Internet has triggered the decline of journalism, and news is now filled with useless tripe concerning celebrities, scandals and White House party crashers. However, one intrepid journalist is showing that quality and informative news content can still be created — even on the Internet. The above clip provides much needed illumination and detail about the perspectives of recent college girl grads when it comes to taking it up the ass. There is no doubt that this topic is of great importance to many men, and modern norms have now allowed anal play to even enter the realm of casual hook-ups.
The interview above indicates that the newest generation of women are amenable to having anal sex, although it “really hurts” even when high. One claims the pain was so intense that she passed out — possibly indicating a good strategy for guys to deal with girls who never shut up. The subjects of this interview — when asked why they think guys are always asking to put it up their butt — theorized that the answer must relate to the tightness of this particular orifice. She then comes to the epiphany that her ass wasn’t created for cocks to be put up it — an assertion which many men would disagree with. Further insights included the importance of lube and a solution to the intractable political situation in the Middle East.
When it comes to getting laid, some guys have the routine so refined that they could pick up girls in their sleep. According to a recently published study by the Sleep Research Laboratory of Toronto, some actually might be doing just that — literally. The condition is officially called Sexsomnia, and it entails initiating sexual activity while asleep. Over 800 people diagnosed with a sleep order were studied, and just under 10% of them had the proclivity to seek sex while still asleep. Not surprisingly, men were three times as likely to have this predisposition as compared to women. One interesting side note to the study was that those who were inclined to have sleep sex also had a three times greater likelihood of using illicit drugs.
With the amount of casual sex that goes on these days, you would be wise to conclude that both men and women feel pretty good about it. Surprisingly, you would be wrong, according to a study published in the journal human nature. Researchers from Durham University in the United Kingdom surveyed thousands of people who had casual sex encounters and got answers about their feelings on the incidents. There were some interesting results.
