How to give great blowjobs

Found this great article over at allexperts.com. Enjoy!

Blowjobs are paradise for many men. But be aware that there are men that just don’t like them; there are men who either don’t get hard from BJs or can not cum from BJs – usually men who always like to be in control of their own orgasms.

If you come across a man who doesn’t come from blowjobs, there is one way to (probably) change that. It is rather extreme. You (in either a flat-on-your-back position or a kneeling position) will allow him to grab the back of your head, insert his cock in your wide-open mouth, and simply fuck your throat as if it were a pussy. Yes, you’ll gag and yes, you might throw up, but some girls do actually enjoy that, and I can guarantee you that many men LOVE that kind of whore-like throat-fucking BJ. If you let him use your throat like that he’ll either love you to death and worship your body afterwards, or he’ll start disrespecting you because you let him use your mouth as if you were a whore. Be careful that your man is the kind who loves a sexually deviant, liberated woman, not one who is scared of them, before you try the “fuck my throat” tactic.

For every girl who hates to be fucked in the throat till she gags, there are three that hate it. If you hate it, DON’T DO IT and don’t let him fuck your throat hard like that. Don’t let him have control of the BJ if he’s abusing your throat and not being gentle. Only let him do that if you like it.

For non-violent blowjobs which won’t hurt your throat, the advice is as follows:

Most important: make sure it is wet. Wet, slushy, sloppy blowjobs are the ONLY kind of blowjobs. Just like when he’s eating your pussy and driving you crazy with his mouth, it HAS TO BE WET to feel good. Use LOTS of spit, and LOTS more. Make it really wet with your mouth.

Next, the swirling, French-kissing technique is usually good. French kiss the head of his cock as if you’re in a porn movie… kiss it, suck on it, swirl your tongue around it, over it, under it, encircle it. Purse your lips and let it slip inside, and then swish your tongue all over the head.

Anyone who tells you guys don’t like their balls licked or shaft sucked is generalizing. Many, many guys like for you to vary it up, lick down their shaft, lick their balls, suck on their balls, lick the place between their balls and ass, and hey, if you’re up for it, lick their asshole. 75% of men ADORE having their asshole licked. Lick it good, like you’re licking clitty – it’ll drive him crazy ‘cause that’s where all his nerve endings are.

Do it for maybe ten or fifteen minutes. Then, when you want to make him cum, if you’re not willing to let him fuck your mouth, it’s best to still attempt to recreate the fucking motion, you know, open your mouth a little wider (so your teeth aren’t involved) and try bobbing your head up and down on it (or back and forth), letting it slide between your lips and into your mouth, then out again. Imagine you are a pussy, riding a cock, and you are trying to go faster and harder to get him and yourself off. That is the kind of rhythm you should be looking for. That will get him off.

Some other things most guys like in blowjobs:

Lots of lipstick never hurts. Some guys like no make up but just as many like slutty red or pink lips sucking their cock. Be his fantasy girl and use pink lipstick and suck it like you worship it.

LOTS OF EYE CONTACT. If you have his head in your mouth and you look in his eyes like you wanna rape him and fuck his brains out, the BJ will feel that much better.

LOTS OF SPIT – spit on it and pull your mouth away, holding it in your tightly-clenched fist… let the strings of spit and drool hang from his cock to your lips, then suck it and spit on it more – that’s what a lot of guys like, and that’s how the pornstars do it.

When he’s coming, it’s best to just keep doing what you’re doing. That’s my best advice for that. If you don’t want him to cum in your mouth, then jack it really hard, pump it with your fist, and aim the cock wherever you want the cum – tits, face, tummy, guys like cumming on those places – but usually nothing as much as in your mouth.

So I hope that advice helps with giving a blowjob. Some last 5 minutes and are a prerequisite for sex, some last half an hour ad are entities unto themselves.

One thing to remember – VERY IMPORTANT: you should not give it without expecting it in return. There is nothing as heavenly as having your pussy licked and your g-spot fingered to glorious, squirting orgasm. You should expect him to go down on you, preferably BEFORE you suck him off. It makes more sense – he makes you cum, then you make him hard and he fucks you. Or he makes you cum, and then you make him cum. Once the guy cums, he often loses a lot of sexual motivation.

If he’s not going down on you, make sure that he does. If he’s no good at it, ask me and I’ll tell you how to tell him how to make it really good. If he refuses to lick you and make you cum, well, you’re giving your BJs to the wrong guy and you can find someone that worships you and wants to give you pleasure as well as getting pleasure from you.

Some guys like to have their heads pushed down into the pussy area – you know, forcing him to service you. Maybe try that. Or push his face into your ass and make him worship you back there. It feels very, very good. Lots of men love licking sexy girls’ asses and pussies. Make him lick you wherever you want to be licked.

Whatever the case, just make sure he’s getting his – and you’re getting yours. You’re just starting out, so you have many years of blissful sex ahead of you. Don’t sell yourself short and don’t worry about any of it – that’s just life!

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One Response to “How to give great blowjobs”

  1. Barry
    March 20, 2012 at 12:53 pm #

    This is a good article with good advice. I already do these things when giving blowjobs and it works wonderfully. It is a little different for me because I am a guy. For example, I very much enjoy being mouth-fucked and performing intense deep throat. And not everyone wants to give and receive equally. I prefer to give and do not enjoy receiving that much.

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