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Nice to see that eHarmony is doing so great they can afford to reject applications displaying a sense of humor.

Q: Does penis size necessarily correlate to a man’s worth as a lover?

A: First of all, studies have revealed that women are equally aroused by pictures of large penises as by images of small penises (right…they don’t like pictures of penises, be they large or small). Regardless of popular stereotyping, penis size is not related to body shape, height, length of fingers, or anything else. Interestingly, it has been proven that “small, flaccid penises tend to increase more in size during erections than do penises that are larger in the flaccid state” (best comeback to ‘you have a small dick’ ever…”Naw son, that’s just when it’s…flaccid”). And even still, it should be emphasized that bigger is not always better. In fact, deep penetration can cause pain similar to that experienced when a male gets kicked in the balls, if the penis bangs into the cervix and causes the uterus to be slightly displaced which may jolt an ovary. The vaginal canal’s greatest sensitivity is concentrated in the outer portion, as opposed to deep within. So…no. If you happen to have a huge penis, just don’t go too hard.

Q: How common are intersexed babies (hermaphrodites)?

A: Intersexed babies in the United States are born with about the same frequency as red heads. It is estimated that intersexed may account for 4% of all births, or 40 out of every 1000 people, worldwide. Interestingly, inter-sexed and transsexual babies who are switched over to the female gender often grow up to have careers as models or actresses due to the fact that their tall height, an aspect of masculinity, is considered to be an symbol of beauty. Such examples include the stunning Italian actress Eva Robinson, angelic Japanese pop sensation Harisu, and purportedly Jamie Lee Curtis who qualifies as American Hollywood royalty.

Q: What is the purpose of female genital cutting that occurs in countries like Africa, the Middle East, and Asia?

A: There are multiple reasons why genital cutting is performed. One is to ensure virginity before marriage. In some countries, such as Sudan, the social stigma for remaining uncircumcised is harsh, as indicated by the fact that being called “the son of an uncircumcised mother” is a most intense insult. A second incentive for procedures such as clitorectomy, removal of the clitoris, is to reassure men that they are not having sex with another man in societies where the clitoris is seen as a small penis.

Q: Are there any societies where homosexuality is predominant?

A: Ah, this brings us to my favorite cultural sexual oddity, which occurs in Sambia, New Guinea. In the Sambia tribe, as early as age 7, young boys are expected to “suck the penis of a mature boy every night and swallow the sperm”. Boys who refuse are forever treated as children within the context of their community, because “without regular ingestion of male seed, the Sambia believe, boys will never grow up into strong, mature men.” At the age of 15, the boys are considered mature enough to provide their own genitals for the younger boys to felicitate. Performing fellatio on a younger boy is strictly forbidden; as it is considered stealing his manhood because it results in a loss of semen from the growing boy. As soon as the boys marry, they cease to engage in homosexual contact, but often times, since they are so estranged from female sexuality and coitus, they ask their new brides to wear a bag over her head and fellate them on their wedding night. Interestingly, according to Loving Boys Vol. 1, “After 10 to 15 years of exclusive homosexual activity carried on by 100 % of the Sambia population, the incidence of adult homosexual orientation is only 5 % – exactly the same as in Western society.” So…short answer, yes, long answer, no.

Q: In the 1800’s, what did women do with left-over cleaning agent Lysol after scrubbing the kitchen floor clean? (nice leading question)

A: They used it as a douche. It was unnecessary, harmful and served no medicinal purpose.

Q: Where do vibrators come from?

A: The vibrator was devised as a medical instrument to take some of the load off of doctors who owned some very tired fingers. Authorities in the medical community theorized that hysteria, “a term that was first coined by Hippocrates and described a medical condition peculiar to women… considered to be a symptom of irregular blood-movement from the uterus to the brain,” could be cured through orgasm. In the mid 1600’s doctors recorded their treatment method of conducting such therapy by hand. Clitoral stimulation often was required for up to an hour before the resulting fit of convulsions, and thus, doctors developed a tool to ease the amount of labor (tisk tisk, lazy lazy). In the 1800s rocking chairs and swings were manipulated to act as promethean devices to help a woman relieve herself of hysteria, but by 1905, the vibrator had evolved into a portable motorized gadget that could get the job done in ten minutes or less and was advertised in “housekeeping, sewing, and ladies’ journals with innocuous pictures of an old woman mechanically massaging her temples with a statement akin to: all the pleasures of youth will throb within you”.

Q: Are there sexual anxiety disorders that do not exist in America, but do in another society?

A: Absolutely. Genital retraction syndrome (GRS), widely referred to as koro (translated as “shrinking penis”), is a thousands of years old culture-specific epidemic which is known to spread mass hysteria at lightening speed, or at least the speed of ejaculation, and is equivalent to Western culture’s phenomenon of anxiety attacks. Koro consists of delusions in which men, especially in Asia and Africa, believes he is “the victim of a contagious disease that causes his penis to shrink and retract into his body, an alarming prospect made worse by local traditions or folklore that adds the warning that this condition is usually fatal”. In 1982, the rumor of koro spread in India and resulted in freaked out parents flooding the hospitals pressed to get their sons (who arrived with “penises bound up to prevent further shrinkage) help. In Singapore during 1967, contaminated pork was announced as a cause of penis shrinkage, prompting men to hang “weights from their penises [or even have] relatives or friends [grab] on …to keep their penises from slipping away.” The concept of koro similarly has infiltrated the consciousness of men all up and down the west coast of Africa producing “recent outbreaks of ‘penis thievery…involving public accusations of penis theft, usually as a result of the unexpected or unwelcome touch from a stranger.”

In January 2002, twelve of the accused “sorcerers” who convinced men that they had used black magic to put a curse on the penis to shrink and were demanding monetary payment in exchange for the antidote, were brutally beaten to death by hordes of men who believed their penises were losing inches as a result. Medical authorities are working on educating the public, enlightening citizens that koro has no basis in reality with a presentation of quantitative measurements of their penis over a period of time.

Q: Is there a way for men to exercise their genitals in effort to achieve more pleasurable sex?

A: Kegel exercises, famous for helping to strengthen the pelvic walls for women in preparation to give labor, also result in positive changes for men, including “stronger and more pleasurable orgasms, better ejaculatory control, and increased pelvic sensation during sexual arousal.” The male version of these exercises work to strengthen the muscles surrounding the internal extension of the penis, which are usually only contracted during ejaculation, with the following steps suggested by Crooks and Baur’s Our Sexuality: (time for your homework lesson…)

1. Locate the muscles by stopping the flow of urine several times while urinating. The muscles you sqeeze to accomplish this are the ones on which you will concentrate. If you do a correct Kegel while not urinating, you will notice your penis move slightly. Kegel’s done when you have an erection will cause your penis to move up and down.
2. Begin the exercise program by squeezing and relaxing the muscles 15 times, twice daily. Do not hold the contraction at this stage. (These are called ‘short Kegels’).
3. Gradually increase the number of Kegels until you can comfortably do 60 at a time twice daily.
4. Now practice ‘long Kegels’ by holding each contraction for a count of 3.
5. Combine the short and long Kegels in each daily exercise routine, doing a set of 60 of each, once or twice a day.
6. Continue with the Kegel exercises for at least several weeks. You may not notice results until a month or more has passed. By this time the exercises will probably have become automatic, requiring no particular effort.

Q: Is it true that the larger a woman’s breasts, the better able she will be to provide nourishment for a baby?

A: In a physically mature woman the breasts are composed internally of fatty tissue and mammary, or milk, glands. There is little variation from woman to woman in the amount of glandular tissue present in the breast, despite differences in size. This is why the amount of milk produced after childbirth does not correlate with the size of the breasts. Variation in breast size is due primarily to the amount of fatty tissue distributed around the glands. Therefore, with bigger boobs, you are receiving higher fat content.

Q: Do perfumes really work as a turn on?

A: It is theorized that perfumes are used so that others will be more likely to breathe in more of the fragrance-wearers pheromones, or odors produced by the body that relate to reproductive functions. While this, and the fact that aphrodisiacs may be learned through association of a trigger (stench) with an experience (hot girl kissing you), may be true, it is interesting to note that “contrary to what the marketers of commercial scents would like us to believe, Alan Hirsh, a researcher at the Smell and Taste Treatment and Research Foundation in Chicago, recently found that the odors reported to be most sexually arousing for either sex were not colognes or perfumes.” To determine arousal, Hirsch measured the blood flow to privates in response to certain smells and found that the strongest reactions by men correlated to scents of “lavender, pumpkin pie, and doughnuts”, whereas women were most stimulated by “licorice, cucumbers, and banana nut bread”. Smells that proved a turn off to women included “barbeque meat, cherries, and men’s cologne.”

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• Bursting with content including sex articles, stories and member videos
• Easy sign-up: requires only a few seconds
• Awesome search and filtering capabilities
• Complete suite of messaging and communication tools
• The large number of features could be overwhelming for new members

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Sex in Your City is really bursting with content; it’s great fun to explore as you get more acquainted with the site. It’s so much content, in fact, that it could be overwhelming for newbies, but I think that the excellent navigation features of this site make it a lot easier than it might otherwise be: not only for people looking for hookups, but also for people with more of a voyeuristic inclination who are interested in following the sexual adventures of ordinary people like me.

Let me describe the various sections of this adult dating site to give you some idea of its content. First of all on the index page you find links to the features that are believed to be of primary interest to members. On the upper left I can access my profile where I can easily make changes to my data, upload pictures, check who has viewed me, and search for prospective hookups. It also gives me a way to “flirt” with other members. Other important features that can easily be accessed through the index page are the “members online” overview, latest articles on members’ sex adventures, a search filter based on age range, location and gender, a list of activities with other members, new members spotlights, featured members, recent messages, and videos of the hottest members.

Wow! And that was just the index page! You will notice a menu bar on the upper part of the page and listed here are various other sections for this website. My SIYC (Sex in Your City) contains the Home, Edit Profile, Add Pictures, Messages, Friends, Hotlist, and Favorite Media items in a drop down menu. For the Search section, we have the Near Me, A Region, New Members, and Online Members items, and for the Sex Mag section, we have the What’s New, Articles and Stories items. In the Gallery section are the Photo Gallery and Sexiest Members items, and in the Videos section are the Add Video, Members’ Videos, and Live Girls items. Of course, there is the usual Help section.

One of this adult dating site‘s most useful features is the Online Members item, which is also fittingly made available on the center of the index page. When you get to a particular member’s profile page, there are only a few words provided for the profile details such as age, ethnicity, body type, etc. An interesting feature is Match-o-meter that indicates the percentage of your compatibility with this particular member. Now that is what I call creativity and innovation! On the lower right corner, you can see comments made by other members. You can also do several things like send a personal message, send a flirt, add this member to your hot list, or ask the member to be your “friend.” This is a great way to make new friends, find a date, and hopefully to hook up for some hot sex!

In the Photo Gallery subsection is another innovation that really speaks to members’ needs. On the upper portion of this page are six photos of members that have been randomly chosen. This is a great way to get your pictures seen by a bunch of people, right? But that is not the only unique feature. On the rightmost part of the page are six photos of featured members! That’s great too, but in the spirit of saving the best until last, on this page is a list of the members who have uploaded their pictures arranged according to date with the most recent on top. This is quite different from the photo galleries of similar sites where photos of a number of members are shown for each page and you have to navigate to each page manually. In Sex in Your City, everything is here on one page!

As for the search system, it is also very impressive. A notable feature is the ability to look for members who are geographically near to you. You can filter the search based on age range, gender, and compatibility. Pictures are arranged based on the most recently uploaded. This is a fast, easy way to help you find a hookup.

In summary, SexInYourCity.com is really an exceptionally well put-together adult dating site, with many excellent features and benefits. Sign up now for your free trial and take it for a test drive!

So you know Photoshop? With all those handy-dandy tools and filters that can turn a not-very photo of yourself into VA VA VOOM ROCK MY ROOM?

Yeah. Maybe sometimes it’s worth taking a second look before you upload the post-processed version.

(Check out her left wrist, too. Ack.)

Brilliant. Just brilliant. bloodninja would be proud.

I’ve recently collected another daunting pile of questions regarding the health benefits of sex. Through the years of my career, and I imagine through the ages of all humanity, this has been a resurfacing question. Typically I answer questions pertaining to the health benefits of sex on a one-on-one basis, but since I know that there are many more men out there who are asking themselves the same question I thought it admissible to address the topic here.

Many people simply enjoy a healthy sex life because sex is pleasurable. Now there’s another reason to stay under the sheets; there are substantial health benefits of sex.

Enjoying a rigorous romp can do wonders for everyone both physically and psychologically. Now, men everywhere can tell their ladies that sex is not only for fun, but, since there are health benefits of sex, their lives may depend on it.

The following are six different reasons why sex and sexual activity may help you live a longer, happier life due to the health benefits of sex:

Sex Can Cure Headaches

All those times that you were told, “Not tonight honey, I have a headache,” all you had to do was inform your woman that one of the health benefits of sex is its ability to act as a pain reliever. The hormone oxytocin (a nine amino acid peptide that is synthesized in hypothalamic neurons and transported down axons of the posterior pituitary for secretion into blood) secretes within your body whenever you engage in sexual activity.

Because of this secretion, endorphins (hormone-like chemicals that bear a close functional resemblance to morphine) are released.

When a person is aroused or excited, oxytocin levels not only begin to increase, they are the reason that orgasms come about. Studies have shown that a rise in oxytocin levels can relieve pain; everything from headaches, cramps and overall body aches can be diminished with a simple roll in the hay.

Sex Reduces Stress

A recent survey revealed that people who have more sex reported that they felt more at ease, happier and learned how to handle stress better. So perhaps the term “sexual frustration” is not too far from the truth.

After an orgasm, an intense wave of calm and relaxation overcomes humans (that’s why men usually fall asleep) and it’s a time when people can truly liberate themselves and let go. Plenty of people who enjoy a regular dose of sex convey that they sleep much better during the night and feel alive and refreshed throughout the day. So, one of the health benefits of sex is a better nights sleep, which allows you to handle day-to-day stress much more efficiently.

Sex Increases Blood Flow

It goes without saying that when we get aroused our blood starts to pump at a quicker rate and, thus, blood flow to our brain increases. Both an increased heart rate and more blood pumping through the brain result in better performance (in and out of the bedroom).

What this ultimately means is that the fresh supply of blood pumping through your body provides the organs with a healthy dose of oxygen and rids the body of old and wasteful products. So, another health benefit of sex is a cleansed system. Treat your temple right with the help of a little excitement.

The health benefits of sex will give you more hormones and keep you younger.

Sex Maintains your Body

One of the health benefits of sex is that it helps to keep you fit and it can keep you in constant awareness of your body image. Everyone likes to know that they have a nice physique and continually being naked in front of another person can be somewhat of a good incentive to stay in shape.

Believe it or not, sexual intercourse burns off 150 calories every half hour. Although the average couple engages in sex for approximately 25 minutes a session only three times a week, it still accounts for 450 calories that are better taken off than put on.

If you’re more active than average, then that will only make things more beneficial for you and that lucky gal. A health benefit of sex, particularly a rigorous hour of sex, is that it may burn even more than 300 calories depending on how rigorous you get.

Orgasms Increase your Lifespan

Although the orgasm is sometimes referred to as the “little death,” having at least two orgasms a week can increase your life span. Every time you reach orgasm, the hormone DHEA (Dehydroepiandrosterone) increases in response to sexual excitement and ejaculation.

DHEA can boost your immune system, repair tissue, improve cognition, keep skin healthy, and even work as an antidepressant. Therefore, a health benefit of sex if you keep the orgasms coming, is potentially a longer life.

Sex Boosts your Hormone Levels

Both testosterone and estrogen levels experience a boost through regular sexual activity. Testosterone does more than just boost your sex drive, it helps fortify bones and muscles, and it keeps your heart in good working condition as well.

In women, sex increases the levels of estrogen, which protects against heart disease. Ever wonder why women love the touchy, feely stuff so much? It’s because of their rise in estrogen levels. This hormone also plays a huge role in a woman’s body scent. While estrogen makes women sentimental, a rise in their testosterone levels is what makes them desire penetration.

Men also produce estrogen and as they age, their estrogen levels increase while their testosterone levels drop. This reversal often results in men becoming somewhat calmer as they get on in years.

Sex Will Make you Healthy and Happy

It’s quite evident that there are many health benefits of sex. It increases brain power, heart rate, it can help fend off diseases and ailments, and it makes individuals feel good about themselves.

In today’s stressful society, it has become a little more difficult to engage in intimate sexuality as often, but as long as you incessantly make the effort, you’ll realize that it’s always worth it.

The health benefits of sex will make you feel wonderful within and without and you will gradually notice that the more sex you have, the more bounce you will have in each step. Happiness isn’t sex itself, but sex does ultimately play a role in human happiness.

Article by Donald Zimmer

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• Simple layout with helpful features
• Good search functionality
• Minimal number of ads for other sites displayed
• Member’s Photo Gallery is difficult to navigate
• Some features transfer you to another site without warning

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The registration procedure for signing up with Red Personals is quite involved. You need to enter a variety of personal details–five pages of information in total.

The home page of Red Personals that you immediately see after logging in is simple but has a lot of helpful features for someone who is looking for a sexy date / one night stand. For example, it links to a page that provides all of the search features together. If you already know the nickname of a particular member you can simply type in the nickname to bring you to that member’s profile. The Simple Search feature lets you filter the ads made by members according to their gender, age, location and sexual preference. The other way to look for potential dates or sex partners is by browsing the Member’s Photo Gallery. Photographs of members are presented here, 30 photos per page. This is something Red Personals could afford to improve on. The only way to navigate this database of pictures is by clicking on the “Next Page” or “Previous Page” buttons. It can be clunky and frustrating.

For Gold Members, there are four additional ways of looking for a partner. One that is very convenient is one that shows a list of the profiles who are currently online. If you are in a hurry to get hooking up, this is a great feature! You can also filter the “who is online” results by choosing to show only couples, women or men. You can also sort the order of the photos shown by nickname or distance from your location.

Another advanced search feature for Gold Members is the Photo Browse, which is a slightly improved version of browsing the Member’s Photo Gallery. It shows the ads created by members that describe themselves and some photos of themselves. You can filter by gender, preference, age range, state, and country. The Profile Search will also let you search for certain keywords in the profiles or headline of members. The best search feature for Gold Members, however, is the Advanced Search tool. Here you can see the importance of those several pages of information that you needed to enter to sign up. Aside from the usual filtering criteria, you can also choose base on eye color, hair color, weight range, race, religion, drinks, smokes, marital status, number of kids, and education.

What is referred to as your “ad” within Red Personals is actually a compilation of your personal information that other members are able to see when they are browsing for potential dates. It contains information such as age, sex, location, distance, marital status, race, hair color, eye color, sexual preferences, AIM user name, self-description, photo, etc. A feature that I find interesting is the Purity Test because it lets you know how experienced a particular member is regarding sex with the opposite sex, sex with the same sex, use of drugs, exhibitionism, bondage, etc.

The Forums section is helpful because you can get a lot of information on dating, various kinds of sexual orientations, and associated information. You can make friends with other members who use this section through participating in discussions. If you want to know more about a particular person than what has been provided in the profile, the Forums section is the place to go.

Live Cams are available for viewing but they’ll cost you. A related section is the “Online Video Dating” which will bring you to a different site, one which is definitely there to make some money off of you.

My Mailbox is an important tool for sending and receiving personal messages within the site. This is part of the available communication system that will assist you in finding that perfect NSA partner.

Red Personals has enough of what you need to keep you satisfied. Just be wary of the upsells and grit your teeth and grind through the signup questionnaire; it’s really worth the time investment for the enhanced search capabilities that it ultimately facilitates.

Florida police say a man arrested for repeatedly calling 911 looking for sex claimed it was the only number he could dial after running out of cell phone minutes. Tampa police said 29-year-old Joshua Basso made sexual comments to the 911 dispatcher and asked if he could come to her house. Investigators say she hung up, but he called back four more times.

He was arrested about 15 minutes later at his home late Wednesday and charged with making a false 911 call. Basso reportedly told officers that he didn’t think he would get in trouble for calling 911.

Tampa jail records show Basso is being held without bond but don’t indicate whether he has an attorney. He is listed as unemployed with arrests for theft and other crimes dating back to 2001.

This Nov. 11, 2009 booking photo made available by the Hillsborough County, Fla. Sheriff's Office shows Joshua Basso. Florida police say Basso, arrested for repeatedly calling 911 looking for sex, claimed it was the only number he could dial after running out of cell phone minutes.

We all know it’s a serious offense to waste police time, but try telling that to the woman who called officers to complain that her daughter had performed oral sex on her husband – and that the daughter was better at it.

The guilty offspring was actually the step-daughter of the man, and her crime of passion in Findlay, Ohio, has caused outrage among readers of the newspaper website that reported it, thecourier.com.

Their comment page has been flooded with angry responses.

One indignant reader, Lee, thought the story sucked: ‘ I subscribe to The Courier but will cancel if the public record is going to be filled with details of multiple female family members servicing the male of the house. This is not news. I think any moral man or woman would call it what it is: depravity!’

Another, Jeff, spat: ‘This is totally unprofessional and inappropriate for a newspaper to print.’

However, the editor of thecourier.com does have his supporters, not least one Mark Shelton, who had nothing but praise for the saucy story: ‘Gotta love The Courier’s docket writer! The most creative writing in any paper around. And for those that don’t like it, don’t read it!!’

Whatever the rights and wrongs of publicizing the incident, let’s just hope the daughter gets a, ahem, stiff sentence.

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• Strong search functionality.
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• Allows trial membership.
• Erotic games on offer.

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Many webmasters or makers of adult dating sites mistakenly think that a site that allows for multi-tasking is a good one, and that multitudes of patrons would be enticed to join because of this. While this is true in some cases, there are sites that simply come across as too confusing–they just have too many features and complications that make first-timers intimidated instead of being encouraged to pay for a membership.

Thankfully, Eroticy is not one of these kinds of websites. It has many features, but its webmasters have managed to organize these features in such a way that you don’t see them as clutter.

This is a place where people can explore and affirm their sexuality. Eroticy is a website that is both adult dating and adult content. When you sign up, you are led to the “Your Eroticy” menu. It is here where you input your weight, height, and the other personal data. This includes what you want in terms of sexual relations. Uploading your own photo is not exactly a must, but is a big help getting feedback and hits to your profile.

Let me now go to the second section — The Community. This is where you can browse through profiles. This section is also where sending emails to others is done. The search parameters are one of the chief criteria for a site to be judged as good, bad, or mediocre. The search functions of the site are above-average, since I was able to search for particular places and qualities. For example, I tried “Heterosexual Caucasian Women in Texas, 20-25 years old, and into Threesome Play.” Believe me, I found a lot of hot and gorgeous hotties in the site that met my requirements.

Eroticy also has a web chatting option, basically a standard offering in this genre of sites. You may not be looking for a serious relationship, and this part is a good service for meeting friends simply for the sake of platonic relationships.

Now, what about the hot stuff of this site? Is the content of Eroticy worth your time? Indeed, the site has a big adult content collection that is every bit the match (or more) of any competitor. Eroticy has no less than 3,000 streaming videos (non-exclusive). If you think that the site only has run-of-the-mill one-minute clips, then you are wrong. I was able to get clips running from five to forty minutes. Choose your category: Double Penetration, BDSM, straight sex, etc. Whatever your inclinations may be, Eroticy has it.

Generally, most of the videos in this site are of good quality. Having Windows Media Player in your PC is a necessity. You could also enjoy additional incentives: about fifty streaming video sites such as Anal University and Asian Hunger, just to name a few.

I am not yet done! As a member of Eroticy, you get access to all of the following: live house cams, amateur chat, 3,000 pic galleries. The live house cam shows gorgeous chicks with their webcams right in their own homes.

Does Eroticy have more? Yes it does have more to offer to its members. You get access to erotic narrations both in audio and in written forms. The site even has a Sex Education part that gives informative Q and A tidbits. When you get tired of chatting with that redhead Russian or reading erotic stories, you can take a break. You can sample the site’s fun games such as Ass Blaster or Anal Invader.

Eroticy also presents an informative guide on swing clubs and escorts for certain territories. Then, the site has a sex shop where you can do some shopping.

Do you have to be a member at once? Of course not, that is the reason why the site’s webmasters have put up a free trial period, so that you can get a feel of the site’s offerings. One feature that makes this adult dating site one of the most popular is the Eroticy TV, which allows you to view streaming videos. Eroticy not only has sex webcams, it also has voyeur webcams. (These are webcams of the site’s members who are currently logged on.)

Just so you know the price range, allow me to mention them. I’ve rounded off the figures: $25/a month, $120/180 days, and $180/year. Reasonable sums for the amount of content and the number and quality of services you receive if you ask me.

So, if you want an online dating place that is easy, fun, and has a lot of offerings, then this site is worth your time and money. Check out Eroticy now, and judge for yourself.

Just read an article by A. Pawlowski that discussed whether or not monogamy was a realistic aspiration in the modern world. He/she makes a number of great points, which I’ll summarize here.

• Monogamy is within the realm of human potential, but it’s not easy. Serial monogamy may be more realistic and better-suited to the human animal.
• Polyamory may also be better than true monogamy, so long as people can get over the jealousy that such relationships often fall prey to.
• Strong aversion to “infidelity” is really a culturally learned behavior. Americans find it much harder to stomach in general and nearly any other culture.
• Powerful and/or famous or famous people are often adrenaline junkies who find it difficult to stop chasing the thrill of new sexual experiences. For obvious reasons they also have more opportunities than most people.
• There are still a lot of reasons why sexual monogamy is in people’s interests. Nature has provided powerful incentives to stay faithful, and many of them are still valid.

If you’re curious, have a read of the article itself, it’s really worthwhile. Then come back and let me know what you think. Is monogamy really over? Is polyamory or serial monogamy a better fit for the modern world?

Laws are supposed to protect us, but when the government decides to get in our pants, some crazy stuff goes down!

Here are some actual sex laws that are really for the record books:

1. In Bakersfield, Calif., if you’re going to have sex with Satan, you’ve gotta use a condom. (And presumably come up with a safe word.)

2. Porking a porcupine is illegal in Florida. But apparently that law didn’t go far enough. Just recently, State Sen. Nan Rich submitted a bill that would ban people in the Sunshine State from being able to stick it in where the sun don’t shine with any animal.

3. In Minnesota, it’s illegal for any slime bucket to hook up with a live fish. (Don’t worry disinterested wives, a cold fish is still okay.)

4. In Dyersburg, Tenn., it is illegal for a lady to call a gentleman for a date. Clearly no one in that town is getting laid.

5. In Merryville, Mo., no woman can waste her natural waist. Wearing a corset is illegal because “the privilege of admiring the curvaceous, unencumbered body of a young woman should not be denied to the normal, red-blooded American male.” No wonder it’s called the “Show Me State!”

6. It’s illegal to purchase sex toys in Alabama.

7. In Washington state, it’s totally legal to fuck an animal like an animal, as long as it weighs less than 40 lbs. Apparently fatty farm pets don’t deserve lovin’.

8. While most would argue that this is place where people get screwed in a million different ways, in Washington, D.C., engaging in any sexual position other than missionary is illegal.

9. In Massachusetts, you cannot recklessly consummate your love with a rodeo clown while the horses are still around.

10. The biggest Internet-porn-consuming state, Utah, gets a little freaky with its laws too. Sex with an animal is totally cool, unless you’re doing it for money. Why buy the cow when you can have the milk for free?