site member recommends fling for casual sex. Awesome.

I got quite a few email responses regarding the review I did the other day. I thought I’d share my favorite one with you, sent to me by a (gasp!) genuine female user of their site:

I’ve been on this site maybe five months. Kinda a waste of time money and effort if you ask me. Most the people on here are one of three things. They are either:

  1. creepy old men,
  2. Too far away to play with in person, or
  3. Treat you like shit. I’m here for sex,no strings. Not a bot, not a hooker. That’s hard for guys to understand.

The site’s easy enough to navigate and the gold room is kinda a cool bonus. Had some problems with the billing though. Maybe five months ago, I signed up for the 3 day trial and they tried to bill me for a month membership. I told them no, and that I don’t want a membership. They don’t listen, so I’ve had it ever since.

I’ve met ONE person off of here. 🙁 I like I think it’s way better for meeting people. better quality of people too. that sounds bad, I know.


-Tessa (not her real name)

I thanked Tessa for her email and sent her back a link to our review. She responded:

You gotta be careful with fling. I LOVE it and it’s great for me. As a girl I get to send out 5 free messages a day without having to be a paying member, and I can reply to as many emails as I want. With guys, I have heard A LOT about people being able to hack into their accounts, steal their credit card info and whatnot. Last I checked, there was around 1 girl for every 20 guys on sites like that. There’s atleast a 1 in three chance that the girl ends up being fake, a bot or a hooker. Odds don’t look too good for guys, I know.

They have member posted porns and pictures …kinda cool. I checked out your review. you’re funny! Sounds pretty accurate too.

If you need me, you know where to find me. Have a beautiful day!



I really found it hilarious that one of‘s own paying members was recommending fling. Anyone else want to share their adult dating site experiences? Just hit us up using the “contact” link up the top of the page and send your story through. Take care!

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22 Responses to “ site member recommends fling for casual sex. Awesome.”

  1. CynD
    April 8, 2009 at 4:58 pm #

    OH so funny. I guess at least she found someone, even if it took her 5 months! 🙂 I’ve only tried out the free sites so far and haven’t had much luck. It’s cool though I know my guy is out there!

  2. Sean
    April 14, 2009 at 12:05 pm #

    Looking for casual encounter, 37,6’0-214.

  3. likey8972
    May 21, 2009 at 2:06 am #

    looking for women to hve some fun times with

  4. Jona
    May 22, 2009 at 7:51 pm #

    Tall dark and handsome, fit and agile, clean, healthy non-smoker seeks super freaks for the exploration of fantasies this summer only. I am super sweet with a totally creative and dirty mind. I think the two go good together. Please be my sexy little fallen angel for crazy good times all summer long. I love to talk dirty. Here are a couple of my fantasies.

    You come over to my house by the side gate because my wife is home asleep. I kiss you and grope you passionately and usher you silently around to the backyard only feet from where my wife is sleeping. I start to feed you my cock slowly and allow you explore just how far you are able to deepthroat me. Then, I start licking that delicious pussy of your spread eagle on the ground and tickle your special spot with my tongue while rubbing it from the inside. After, I make your toes curl up. I start pounding your hot little slit until it’s pulsating, bruised and quivering. When you start to moan, I slap you and point to the wall where my wife is just behind asleep. I cover your mouth and tell you to shut the fuck up. Then, I bend you over and shag you rotten doggystyle just to finish you off. When your about through, I violate your asshole with my finger and stick my cock deep in your ass. Slow at first because that shit is tight! When you moan and gasp in surprise, I cover you mou
    th again from behind and once again tell you to shut up. Then I fuck the shit out of your little ass and cum deep inside you. We curl up briefly and kiss as the cum oozes out of your holes and I escort you back to the side gate. Shhhh! I kiss you again and thank you with all my hearty for being my sweet dark angel undercover and sly! You walk quickly down the street and I hope I see you again soon! Add the variation where I come over to your house while your asshole of a husband is asleep.

    You come with me in my sweet ride way up in the mountains through locked gates where there is nobody for miles. I lay the seat all the way back without the headrest so my head leans far back. You take off your undies and straddle my face. Laying down on me with your feet on the backseat and your mouth around my cock, I tickle your pussy with little flicks of my tongue as you explore the deepthroat and sucking of a big, thick cock.Later we just shag in the backseat if it is raining or outside in nature if it is sunny. You are standing spread eagle against a boulder and I am fucking the shit out of you from behind. Go ahead and scream your head off! No one’s around!

    If these fantasies are to you liking or if you would like to share your own with me this summer, let’s get together for super hot, undercover, discreet, no-strings sex and fuck each other like beasts when we have the opportunity for rendezvous! I work a lot, am never around, don’t even need to know your name and know how to keep a secret! Please be the sex crazed fuck bunny I am longing for to spice up my otherwise monotonous work aholic life! I can meet and greet first wherever you like as long as you are serious. I am not a creep nor do I have swine flu or otherwise merit disgust. Please responses only. No fat, ugly girls! I take care of myself and expect any lover of mine to do the same. for e-mail, phone #

    • kathy
      September 13, 2009 at 5:23 am #

      Damn baby we should hook up! I’ll suck ur Dick!

      • Geoff
        March 29, 2010 at 7:39 pm #

        Hey Kathy,

        Where are you cause I love having my cock sucked and I would love to return the favour ;o)


  5. sexybrngirl
    May 26, 2009 at 1:27 am #

    I went to not for sex but to look around at hot men body well since I don’t pay I can’t look bummer but hey its for my own good.

  6. KrisBelucci
    June 2, 2009 at 7:27 am #

    Great post! Just wanted to let you know you have a new subscriber- me!

  7. FOsho
    June 5, 2009 at 1:21 am #

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  8. Andrew
    June 9, 2009 at 10:44 pm #

    26. 5’11 tall. Gym Rat. Looking for someone to satisfy my desires. 18-25 F only.

  9. Braunstein
    June 11, 2009 at 7:46 pm #

    i love the design of your blog! what template is it ? i signed up to your rss feed 🙂

    • admin
      September 3, 2009 at 7:32 pm #

      We’re using Woothemes FreshNews. Thanks!

  10. Dan
    July 2, 2009 at 4:38 pm #

    I had a very positive experience on I was scoring with 3-4 women a week until I decided to hang up “the playa” lifestyle and settle down with just one girl. If it doesn’t work out, youu bet I’ll be back on SexSearch in a heartbeat!

    July 22, 2009 at 8:50 pm #

    I have been on this site for 8 months now, on and off. Due to a billing glitch, which was answered (I can forward the email), they won my Gold membership.

    I have no problem meeting REAL women to talk to on that site, but no physical hook-ups from the site.

    Maybe my game stinks, so I’d love to hear from anybody on their routine, although I have no trouble keeping our chain of messages/chats going on for a while, each time I dig in for a phone call/meet up they vanish.

    I have not been solicited for a cam girl nor have I been spammed in the time I have used the site, although I have to admit that I do not put much effort on the site – maybe up to 2-3 hours a week.

    Hope this helps people.

  12. ErosFan
    July 29, 2009 at 4:30 pm #

    I can understand why some may feel like SexSearch is a scam (all these sites have the same reputation) but I tried it for shits and giggles and ended up meeting a REAL chick abt 20 minutes away. We didn’t fuck the first time but did make out n stuff and by the second date we fucked like no tomorrow. It was well worth the wait and well worth the effort.

  13. Brian926
    August 4, 2009 at 6:44 pm #

    Say what you want about Sexsearch, but the site worked for me. I started corresponding with a girl, a bit on the curvy side but with Megan Fox’s looks – no complaints there – and we hooked up. She lives in a smaller town about 40 min away so that worked to my advantage!

    • admin
      August 4, 2009 at 6:47 pm #

      I can only talk to my own experience, Brian. But glad it worked out for you.

  14. cherry Johnson
    August 4, 2009 at 10:55 pm #

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  15. Sandi
    September 3, 2009 at 6:57 pm #

    Obviously someone trying to spam you with their affiliate link to Fling … that’s the oldest trick in the book and you fell for it LOL!

    • admin
      September 3, 2009 at 7:34 pm #

      She didn’t supply a link, let alone one with an affiliate ref code in it.

      You idiot.

  16. Paisley
    November 25, 2009 at 8:39 am #

    I have been a member of a site, that I feel works and is free or you can become a VIP for less than $25. a month. There are plenty of locals and even more of other countries. It is a great site, and the people are amazing that run it…you see and chat with them on a daily basis within the site. Many members are an absolute Riot..I recommend… I am not a scammer nor am I a bot or a hooker. Just someone that has got nothing from can’t even get into the site, got my password and logged in but it won’t go past the log in page..go figure. Oh well I suppose I will stay with the trusted, tried, and proven familiar site of choice. Good luck to everyone.

    Frustrated in Fl.,

  17. Creola Frohock
    March 1, 2010 at 9:35 pm #

    Good information in your blogpost, I watched a report on television the other day about this same thing and since I am going to be married a few weeks from now and the timing couldn’t have been better! thanks for the ideas!, I have bookmarked, thanks Creola Frohock

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