In part 2 of this series you have learned more about how her body works and some specific techniques you can use to really please her. The most important thing is to stimulate a woman mentally as well as physically, and make sure you both enjoy the experience rather than focusing only on the “big O”. Hopefully this has shown you the differences in her body that give her enjoyment, and you can manipulate these differences to have a fantastic time together.
Here are two case studies to illustrate what this book has taught you. Like part 1, there is one story of a man who does everything right, and one story of a man who does the complete opposite!
Case Study 1: Tony’s Night
After a night out at a great restaurant, Tony invites Barbara back to his place to watch a video and she accepts. He pours them some wine and they settle back on his couch to watch.
He takes her hand and slowly massages it with is fingers, and she snuggles up to him on the couch. When the film ends, he turns off the TV, puts on some soft music and they sit together in the dimly lit room, drinking wine and talking softly.
Their heads move together and he starts kissing her, very gently, just touching the tip of her tongue with his and kissing each lip. She responds by pressing her body to his, and he puts his arms around her and his hands gently on the back of her neck.
He moves his head down to her neck, kissing her there and on her face and ears, while running his hands over her arms and through her hair. He kisses her mouth again, more deeply but not aggressively.
He pulls back gently and leads her to his bedroom, which is tidy and his bed is clean and made. He lies her down on the bed and slowly starts undressing her while exploring her body with his hands and tongue, working his way downwards. He touches her like he was touching a piece of silk, running his hands over her body for his own pleasure. He murmurs comments about how beautiful she is and how great she tastes.
He goes down with her and she becomes very wet, moaning with pleasure. She sits up and starts doing the same to him, undressing him and kissing him. He whispers, “Do you want me inside you,” and she says yes, very much. He rolls on a condom and she goes down on him. They touch each other for a while, then he slowly begins to penetrate her. They move together slowly at first, then find a rhythm and quicken the pace. She moves on top and he lies back, watching her while moving his hips around and stroking her breasts. She begins to move more urgently and comes, her long hair just brushing his face.
She rolls over beneath him again and he strokes her all over, kissing her mouth then looking at her and smiling. He moves inside her again, placing his hands under her buttocks to move deeper inside her. She runs her hands over his body and they both breathe heavily until they come together.
He withdraws and takes her in his arms, saying, “That was wonderful.” And she smiles happily. He holds her and strokes her as they chat quietly for a while, then drift peacefully into sleep.
Case Study 2: Bill’s Night
Bill had been trying to score a woman for months, without any success. Finally he managed to bring home Lucy after a few dates and a fair bit of alcohol. He took her home to his dark, dingy flat and cleared a path to the couch.
As soon as she sat down, Bob pounced, kissing her messily and stuffed his tongue into her mouth. She pushed him away, but after a few seconds he was back in her mouth while grabbing for a breast. She pulled away from him but repositioned herself on the couch so she was more in control, and started kissing her the way she liked it. He tried to follow her lead, and she showed him how to be gentler. She was quite touched by how inexperienced he was and wanted to teach him how to please her.
They made their way into his room, and fell on the unmade bed. He started taking his clothes off, but she said, “Can’t we just lie here for a second first?” He reluctantly lay next her and held her, kissing and stroking her, but his heart wasn’t in it. When was he going to get some real action? He looked at his watch and sighed. She noticed and her heart sank, as she wondered why she was still here.
“Do you have a condom? “she asked. “No,” said Bill, “I didn’t think about it.” She stared at him for a second, then went to her bag to get one.
“Why do you carry condoms?” asked Bill. He was suspicious, wondering if she was a slut or something. “Because they’re for safe sex,” she said, exasperated.
He rolled on the condom and tried to enter her, but she pushed him back, saying she wanted them to kiss a bit more. He jammed his tongue into her mouth for a second, then entered her.
He moved quickly, his eyes screwed up in concentration, his face away from hers. When he had come, he rolled over and started snoring.
Lucy gathered her stuff together and left, but not before pouring some water over Bill’s head to let him know how she felt.
This post concludes Lyla’s series. We’d like to thank her sincerely for her contribution to the blog, and we wish her well in all her future endeavors. We’ll shortly be collecting her series and making it available here, for free, as a downloadable PDF. Stay tuned. – Admin.