How to Find Sex: the Art of the One Night Stand – Part 20 “Conclusion”

Lyla Marsh, Author and Sexpert

Lyla Marsh, Author and Sexpert


In part 2 of this series you have learned more about how her body works and some specific techniques you can use to really please her. The most important thing is to stimulate a woman mentally as well as physically, and make sure you both enjoy the experience rather than focusing only on the “big O”. Hopefully this has shown you the differences in her body that give her enjoyment, and you can manipulate these differences to have a fantastic time together.

Here are two case studies to illustrate what this book has taught you. Like part 1, there is one story of a man who does everything right, and one story of a man who does the complete opposite!

Case Studies

Case Study 1: Tony’s Night

After a night out at a great restaurant, Tony invites Barbara back to his place to watch a video and she accepts. He pours them some wine and they settle back on his couch to watch.

He takes her hand and slowly massages it with is fingers, and she snuggles up to him on the couch. When the film ends, he turns off the TV, puts on some soft music and they sit together in the dimly lit room, drinking wine and talking softly.

Their heads move together and he starts kissing her, very gently, just touching the tip of her tongue with his and kissing each lip. She responds by pressing her body to his, and he puts his arms around her and his hands gently on the back of her neck.

He moves his head down to her neck, kissing her there and on her face and ears, while running his hands over her arms and through her hair. He kisses her mouth again, more deeply but not aggressively.

He pulls back gently and leads her to his bedroom, which is tidy and his bed is clean and made. He lies her down on the bed and slowly starts undressing her while exploring her body with his hands and tongue, working his way downwards. He touches her like he was touching a piece of silk, running his hands over her body for his own pleasure. He murmurs comments about how beautiful she is and how great she tastes.

He goes down with her and she becomes very wet, moaning with pleasure. She sits up and starts doing the same to him, undressing him and kissing him. He whispers, “Do you want me inside you,” and she says yes, very much. He rolls on a condom and she goes down on him. They touch each other for a while, then he slowly begins to penetrate her. They move together slowly at first, then find a rhythm and quicken the pace. She moves on top and he lies back, watching her while moving his hips around and stroking her breasts. She begins to move more urgently and comes, her long hair just brushing his face.

She rolls over beneath him again and he strokes her all over, kissing her mouth then looking at her and smiling. He moves inside her again, placing his hands under her buttocks to move deeper inside her. She runs her hands over his body and they both breathe heavily until they come together.

He withdraws and takes her in his arms, saying, “That was wonderful.” And she smiles happily. He holds her and strokes her as they chat quietly for a while, then drift peacefully into sleep.

Case Study 2: Bill’s Night

Bill had been trying to score a woman for months, without any success. Finally he managed to bring home Lucy after a few dates and a fair bit of alcohol. He took her home to his dark, dingy flat and cleared a path to the couch.

As soon as she sat down, Bob pounced, kissing her messily and stuffed his tongue into her mouth. She pushed him away, but after a few seconds he was back in her mouth while grabbing for a breast. She pulled away from him but repositioned herself on the couch so she was more in control, and started kissing her the way she liked it. He tried to follow her lead, and she showed him how to be gentler. She was quite touched by how inexperienced he was and wanted to teach him how to please her.
They made their way into his room, and fell on the unmade bed. He started taking his clothes off, but she said, “Can’t we just lie here for a second first?” He reluctantly lay next her and held her, kissing and stroking her, but his heart wasn’t in it. When was he going to get some real action? He looked at his watch and sighed. She noticed and her heart sank, as she wondered why she was still here.

“Do you have a condom? “she asked. “No,” said Bill, “I didn’t think about it.” She stared at him for a second, then went to her bag to get one.
“Why do you carry condoms?” asked Bill. He was suspicious, wondering if she was a slut or something. “Because they’re for safe sex,” she said, exasperated.

He rolled on the condom and tried to enter her, but she pushed him back, saying she wanted them to kiss a bit more. He jammed his tongue into her mouth for a second, then entered her.

He moved quickly, his eyes screwed up in concentration, his face away from hers. When he had come, he rolled over and started snoring.

Lucy gathered her stuff together and left, but not before pouring some water over Bill’s head to let him know how she felt.

This post concludes Lyla’s series. We’d like to thank her sincerely for her contribution to the blog, and we wish her well in all her future endeavors. We’ll shortly be collecting her series and making it available here, for free, as a downloadable PDF. Stay tuned. – Admin.

18 Responses to “How to Find Sex: the Art of the One Night Stand – Part 20 “Conclusion””

  1. the thing is
    March 25, 2009 at 10:01 pm #

    You really hate men don’t you. Get over it slut.

    • lylamarsh
      March 25, 2009 at 10:32 pm #

      Wow yeah, you have me all figured out! I’ll start getting over it right now! LOL.

    • Canaduck
      July 19, 2009 at 12:39 am #

      …uh yeah, you can tell from that first post about having great sex with a man that she really hates men.

      That makes tons of sense.

  2. NeedMoney
    March 26, 2009 at 3:08 pm #

    Thanks for the series Lyla! I enjoyed reading it all, do you have your own website we can read?

    • lylamarsh
      March 26, 2009 at 4:07 pm #

      Thanks Greg! I’m currently in the process of getting my website together, I’ll let you know when it goes live. At the moment I just have a twitter account – you can see it at . Thanks for the comment, enjoy the books!

  3. Adelle
    June 2, 2009 at 9:34 pm #

    Damn! I just came upon reading this article. Im sooo hornyyyy.

    • stephen
      July 16, 2009 at 11:11 pm #

      me too

  4. ONS
    June 4, 2009 at 9:03 pm #

    Art of One Night Stand. Just always be safe and avoid the drama when you wake up in the morning

  5. Getting Laid
    June 9, 2009 at 10:42 pm #

    Ive had so many ONS and all it all started with just eye to eye contact. How’s that?

    • Even
      June 11, 2009 at 9:27 pm #

      Woahhh.. I should be getting tips from you. How many have fallen into your pockets? Can we trade shoes now?

  6. Adam
    June 25, 2009 at 9:02 pm #

    Alcohol is the key to success. Beat that!

  7. Lovo
    July 7, 2009 at 10:44 pm #

    I’ve had about 50+ one night stands since this year. I agree with the post.

    • Letty
      July 14, 2009 at 9:23 pm #

      Really huh. Hope you get std. Good luck!

  8. Naughty Adult Dates
    July 22, 2009 at 9:44 pm #

    I think its and excellent article, looking forward to the PDF format when its released.


  9. Daniel Paul Edward Tyson-Young
    March 1, 2010 at 6:42 pm #

    Really enjoeyd reading this, it gave me some insight, thanks.

  10. Daniel Paul Young Hitler
    March 14, 2010 at 1:08 am #

    I am teellling the, of a night on the town called William Tyson Hitler, and how he fif everything wrong.

    William and his brother Daniel, both had a heavey night of smokeing Cannabis, when they went back to his freinds Matise house, vey both pullled open da cans, and started drinking !!
    SWoon, a blond walked in.
    William said ”Can I have a kiss?”
    And the blond rushed over and gave Villiam a French kiss.
    Now, a few spliffs latgor, and a can or der, he pulled down his trouses and pants and started masterbateing.
    I looked in disbilifle, if slight intrege.
    Be it not, that Matice also looked, and watched.
    The blond said nothing.
    I told him to stop ”Can you stop that please.”
    He saikd ”No.”
    I saikd ”Can you stop that,\ right now”
    he saikd ”No.##”
    I saikd ” Can you stop that right now !! thear is a lady watching, and you are in my freinds house, cut it out !!!”
    He said ”What, you gonner make me??”
    So, Villiam Tyson Hitler, carried on masturbateing for futhteen minuites !!!!
    In full veuw if my freind Matice! vand the blond !!!!!!!.
    I was in a sleet of an outrage.

    Daniels Story.

    Daniel Paul Young Hitler, one day decided to do a demonstraion on behalf of the Labour party.
    He decided to take it apon himself to goto Jashwani’s University Campus and go and ask him if he wanted to go out with him.
    When Daniel Young Hitler, got to his Campus, after the Labour demonstration, and after being a black bird in the dark, and after playing hoter and colder out side his door, a woman of a cleanlieer nature proceeded me up the stairs after what appeard to be a teacher let me in.
    When I got in, I waited, so not to appear rude.
    When Joshwani opened his door, he said ”come down hear”
    Joshwani proceeded to say ”I thought I made it clear that I am not interested in you”
    I thought in an insatnt ” I knew this was comeing ”
    I proceeded to say ” You didn’t understand what I said to you, that night ”
    For a moment a look of fancy, and infactuation bestowed apon his face.
    He then proceeded to say ” That letter really freaked me out ”
    And at that point I really did not know what to say.
    I should have got out a tardis, zoomed to the presant, and then zoomed back, and said, ” Yes, but that was before I knew my Great Grand Dady was Adolf Hitler ”
    ” That was before I realised that you hadn’t killed yourself to make me jelous ”
    and ” That was before, I knew, that you had not been beaten up and photo graphed by gay bashers, always be carefull what you post apon FaceBook,, Especially after deleteing my profile the night after I have slept with you. ”

    So zer you see boys and girls, dis a an acount, ov an sucsessfull attempt, an and unsucsessfull attempt.
    The second, was when I asked him to be my valentime at his campus constabulationary.
    Da first time I have ever asked anyone to be my valentime.
    It was unsucessfull.


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